Just a few moments ago I asked my
girlfriend what I should write about for my blog post today. I told her the
topics, "How is leisure connected to happiness?" and "What makes
people happy?”; and she told me to write about the Heart Walk she, myself, and
her sister participated in yesterday. As I was thinking about it, I told
her I didn't think the walk itself was something that contributed to
my happiness; however the social aspect of the experience did. She had a
different personal opinion; she said that the walk as well as the social aspect
both directly contributed to her happiness. This is a prime example of the
argument that I made in my second paper; satisfying
conscious or unconscious personal needs and desires is what makes one happy. My
girlfriend lives an extremely healthy lifestyle and it is one of her top
desires in life to be as physically fit as possible. While I do consider
fitness important, it is not an intrinsically rewarding desire, as it is for
her. In other words, I do not necessarily gain happiness from the mere
participation in fitness related activities as she does. Fitness for me is more
extrinsically rewarding and therefore my happiness cannot be derived from
participation in such an activity as walking. I would have to see results such
as weight loss. Completing the walk itself was a goal that led to her happiness
because her goal was participation and her desire was intrinsic. I had no goals
in mind while participating. I
only reaped the extrinsic reward of spending time with her and her sister.
While the event made both of us happy, it made us happy for different reasons. This goes to show that participation
in activities will only produce happiness so long as the desires and or needs
for that person are being met. Would participating in
a Heart Walk make you happy? Follow the link for the American Heart
Association’s Heart
Walk and find out.
Sounds like you had some good bonding time with your girlfriend and her sister! I think that if I were to do a walk such as that one, it would make me happy because I knew I was supporting a cause. Helping the American Heart Association and showing my support would be uplifting to me. I wouldn't see it as a fitness event unless I was running, but I think these events are more aimed toward showing your appreciation for a helpful organization and maybe even remembering loved ones affected or lost due to heart conditions.
ReplyDeleteIf I were to do a walk, I think I would be happy intrinsically as well as extrinsically. I too like to do physical activities but I would also be happy to do it for a cause.
ReplyDeleteI also want to say that I don't think one needs a reason to really be happy. Music, dreams, and other abstract things can make a person happy.